They say that no matter how much one seeks, one finds it most of the time with difficulty. The seeker tries to chase an object and catch it. The object, person, or living being that is running away will be chased. Whatever object you are running away from will chase you. This is a two-way cycle. That’s why you can’t get anywhere by looking for your goal. Even if you look outside for all the treasures, you can’t find them. All those gems are within you. So there is nothing to chase and there is no waiting. Reaching your goal is not by running towards it, but by transforming yourself into it. At the end of the day, the way you go to your goal is the same way you go to yourself. Whatever you hit the target with, you hit yourself with the same thing. You become the target. So unless he goes to his own heart, that chase will continue outside. It doesn’t matter where you are or where you are, nor does it matter what you’ve done in the past. The things that define you are far beyond these because you don’t need a definition. Ego, Expectations, and Results When our ego’s expectations and outcomes don’t match, it holds you back from yourself. It reveals the illusion that you and I are undeserving. There is no right or gain, but the ego indirectly makes you feel superior. In this way, it reveals feelings of arrogance and pride in you. The doors of receiving are closed for a person who is caught up in these feelings. When you understand these and isolate yourself from them, you can enjoy life beautifully. You can easily see what life has given you rather than what you think you deserve, you can be grateful and move forward. Your ego wants to reveal itself The results want to prove your identity You get lost in an inextricable cycle, one in which you run for external approval rather than your own peace. He pushes aside his own desires and interests to receive love and approval from outside. He pursues success for this love and approval. As I mentioned above, the thing he is chasing will run away from him at great speed. Your path leads to the intersection of your interests and needs, which lead from you to you. You flow into those areas like a rushing stream. You just walk without knowing or desiring to reach the sea. A person’s potential is revealed not through expectations, but when he does his best even if he knows he will be gone tomorrow. It is not even certain that you will be in this body tomorrow. If you have a moment, then you value it. You become the one who evaluates your moments. The road does not lead to what you want, but to the areas you need and where you can flow with enthusiasm. Being in the Middle Wherever you go, whatever you do, just be in the middle. If you are not in the middle, you are between two extremes. So when you walk close to the middle, your steps and life are in balance.
Therefore, being at either extreme will easily drag you to the other extreme. As a result, you will feel the imbalance. Life experiences show you what you don’t want. These things you don’t want are the gateway to what you do want. Embrace what you invite because it brings you into your present consciousness. Before you set your sights on a new goal, take a look at what you’ve achieved in the past. Therefore, those who can leave behind what they have taken from their past with balance can walk easily. As you let go of what happened in the past, you begin to make room for the new. Now it will be easier for you to set a goal and become it. You don’t aim at the target because you know the target. You just line up with the target and shoot the arrow. At that line, the target will be you. Just as alignment is important for working the correct muscles in body movements, it also plays a big role in becoming the person you will be in life. Align in the middle and just do it. Stay away from expectations and think about the consequences. Neither leave it to chance nor rush towards it with greed. Just stand in the middle and align. Take the confidence and trust in yourself and move forward and transform. Only you can give yourself this inner confidence. Walk the Path of the Unique One People who let go of their expectations are freed from the chains they have imposed on themselves. Man is the one who does everything to himself. Thus, he sees and understands himself in the mirror of life. It contains all the emotions it sees outside, to its own extent. Anger, sadness, fear, joy, excitement, and more… All the mediators who show these are with you. There is no one above, no one below. Everyone is protected and loved on the same level. Whatever you want to feel and taste is given to you. Know your place and fulfill your responsibilities. While doing these, turn life into a playground for yourself. Explore, run, walk and smile. Smile at yourself first. Walk this path with certainty. Know that trust comes from yourself, see your value from yourself, and feel your love within yourself. Continue on your unique path. You are loved for who you are and for all that you reflect. Stop being competitive, ahead or behind, and move forward. Move forward on your unique path. Remember your uniqueness while everyone carries a piece of you. See only the similarities in everyone to you and remember your own uniqueness. Life exists beyond being identical and beyond the known. With the Meeting of Opposites Realize that darkness cannot exist without light, and light cannot exist without darkness. In Yin yoga classes, opposites come together
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