Stop holding on and be free from pleading

When I was 8-9 years old, a new computer was bought for me. At that time, I wanted to buy and play the Spider-Man game and 1-2 games.

I immediately went to the market and bought the cracked version of the game, a copied version.

In those days, reaching the original was a little more difficult.

The CD I bought was of the “DVD” type. So the computer had to have a DVD reader. But I had a cd-rom on my computer. When I went with the DVD in my hand, he couldn’t read it.

I didn’t know about it at the time and couldn’t get it to work. I remember a moment when I was looking at the CD I bought in front of the house.

I wanted it so bad but I couldn’t make it work. While I was looking at him, I said, “There is nothing I really want.”

In yoga, we call this way of learning anumana. It is information learned by concluding.

The subconscious had learned such information in this way at that time. He interacted, experienced the event, and drew a conclusion after this event. He said not even if I wanted to. He learned this.

When we look at the process here, we can say that this conclusion is correct in a way.

Wanting something to happen so much is like creating invisible friction between you and it.

This time you start pushing him. You can also think about this in your relationships.

Attaching yourself to a person as if pleading for help and thinking that you cannot live without them activates an underlying repulsion force.

Wanting something to happen very much or clinging to someone as if hoping for help are the same thing.

You subconsciously push that person or the thing you want away from yourself without realizing it.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t want anything. I’m talking about wanting something and just letting go of the outcome.

The source of your victimization is hidden when you hold on

So where is the problem here?

The problem is that instead of trying to find an easy way to get what we want, we want to make it difficult for them.

No matter how much you want, you create friction and create mishaps.

You start not being able to get that thing and pushing it away from yourself.

You make it difficult for yourself and reject what you want. Then, when these setbacks happen to you in life, you feel sad.

Making what you want difficult leads you to complaints or dissatisfaction.

This state of complaint and dissatisfaction keeps you stuck where you are.

Next thing you know, you start to describe yourself as a victim.

The underlying reason for this victimization situation is that you do not know which direction, at what speed, and how to go.

No one is a victim in this life. Everyone came to this world with their own choices to live.

You live what you choose and what you say.

So think about the things you want more and listen to what our ancestors said.

The more you run away from something, the faster it follows you.

That’s why they say “Those who run away will be chased” and “What I fear will happen to you”.

When you really want what you want from your heart and know it will happen, you stop rushing. You are sure it will happen.

That’s why they will disappear directly;

• your complaints,
• dissatisfaction,
• your excuses
• What you see as a problem

Because you will start to see this place with new eyes. You will have a new perspective.

When you let go of the things you want and hope for, you will attract them more easily.

When you let go of what you hold on to, they are laid out before you.

Which path will you choose?

You can say that I have wanted many things so much that I did everything to get them.

You can say that I spent my whole night during my day, worked 12 hours a day, and ignored my body.

You may have done these things and by doing these things you got what you wanted.

Did you see what you lost?

• Your Mental Health
• Physical Health
• Your Energy Level

A barter system worked here. You caused a compulsion and resistance.

You destroyed a place by force. You did this in your relationships with friends or family and built your business.

Now think again. The easy way or the hard way?

Would you like to proceed in the same way? Would you prefer a different path?

Stop this fight with yourself and your body.

It’s up to you to encounter good experiences and learn new things as you follow the easy path.

You can also improve very well when you follow the easy path. All you need is self-control.

You can have the potential to achieve what you want more easily, rather than hindering yourself by forcing yourself.

When you can’t reach it, you can see other ways instead of getting upset.

You become the master of those you hold captive and leave captive.

What can you do?

• Imagine a situation, relationship, or item that you want very much.
• Feel right now how you will feel when you get this.
• Try to understand by looking at your memories that nothing will change about you by getting that thing. (The emotions you feel when you encounter a computer, tablet, or an event or person are temporary.)
• Say it would be nice if it was for that thing and just let it go. Stop being needy and hoping for help. Do this by feeling it within yourself.
• You did not exist with it, you already existed and it will be a moment. Realize impermanence. The more you realize this, the more you will appreciate it and enjoy it, rest assured.

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